April 18, 2011

spring fever week3

Life's Journey with a Smile

this week's questions:
  1. What have you done this past week to help you achieve your goals?
  2. What did you do this past week to make you feel good about yourself?
  3. Are your SFC goals your ultimate goals or steps to your ultimate goals?  Do you find it easier to set big goals or do you like making mini-goals?
  4. What are some of your ultimate goals, things on your bucket list?
  5. Fun Question: If you could achieve only one more thing in your life, what would it be?
question 1: (1) water bottle and workouts to the rescue! weekdays were no problem again. however, unlike last weekend, this weekend was a breeze. i had two good workouts, and i always down a glass after working out. plus i finally had my last session for class. i filled up my water bottle beforehand since i use it as a method to slow myself down. i have a tendency to speak before fully thinking through what i want to say. i drank almost half by the time we were done with the session and review :) (3) it's getting easier to get up and out, even with my wed shift. i still haven't decided if i'm going to keep my late wed though. i like morning workouts, but i won't have a need to work so late starting in may (no more weight watchers meetings). i have contemplated more morning workouts, but i don't want to fiddle with the schedule too much just yet (4) i needed an extra day cause i'm laaazy, but i finally got my comps backed up. scratch that off the list :D (5) well i came in underbudget on gas, but went overbudget on groceries. so i changed my sunday plans to avoid also going over on my misc expenditures. not an easy or fun choice (6) i decided on two weight watchers recipes to try, and was all set to make them... then i just didn't feel like it. no big since, technically, i would've been a week ahead of my mac schedule

question 2: as much as it sucked, deciding to not take myself out for dinner, which would've come with complimentary dessert *sigh* my priorities are saving, and staying on budget is key to that. i keep thinking back to friday. because of my aggressive and obsessive saving, i would actually save more than necessary on two goals. i opted to recalculate both goals so that i can start contributing to one that's been on hold for months, my emergency fund. this fund is now my "i'm not working spring 2013" money so i'm double excited to restart it. i also started assessing other goals, which led to the creation of a brand new goal. i'm seriously not joking when i say i'm obsessed with saving and SmartyPig. knowing that i can pay for grad school without another student loan is one of the best things in the world :)

question 3: these are, mostly, steps towards ultimate goals. i used to set big goals, but never accomplished them. either because i didn't think about the steps it would take to get there or because i was too overwhelmed to implement anything. being on weight watchers forced me to look at incremental changes instead. my ultimate goal was to stay/get healthy, which broke down to eat healthy, workout and be mindful. those broke down in to more specific goals that i'm now using routinely. i am a giant leaps kind of person, but taking smaller steps has gotten me more successfully to my end point

question 4: good question! i'm never quite sure how to answer :) my life goals are not necessarily what i would consider bucket list items... i want to get married, buy a house, have babies and get a dog. i want to open my own counseling practice. i want to travel to europe, especially ireland. i want to really learn russian and american sign language. i want to retire to a cute little cottage in the "middle of nowhere" that still has awesome internet service and cell reception. i want to be able to leave money to my favorite organizations, charities and schools when i die. i want to get more tattoos... ok that last one isn't really an ultimate goal. i'm just really excited about getting more tattoos :) getting the first probably would've counted as a bucket list item. let's replace it with i want to read every book on the banned book list

question 5: financial independence. i don't want to live my entire life relying on loans and credit to pay for myself and my family. i don't want to end up like my parents who struggle every month to make sure that bills and expenses can be covered for everyone from my grandmother to my sister. i don't want to live paycheck to paycheck, having to decide if i'm going to pay the electricity or buy food for the week. i don't want to leave this world having to stick someone else with the bill... of course, this assumes i only accomplish one thing and then die immediately. cause nothing will hold me back from achieving all of my goals ;)

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Great work on your goals this week! I love that you're striving so hard for financial independence - too many people are willing to rely on credit cards for everything - there is nothing quite like knowing that the money you earn, you actually get to keep because you don't owe it to anyone else.

Ireland is an amazing place, definitely keep it on your list of places to go. It's actually really inexpensive there too (especially in comparison to the rest of Europe).
1 reply · active 727 weeks ago
thanks :) "the money you earn, you actually get to keep" yes! i'll probably never be totally debt free, but at least i won't be swimming in it :)

that's great to know about ireland. since that's a ways off, i hadn't looked in to costs just yet. i can't wait to hang out with sheeps ;)
Good for you, Michelle. I have to agree with you on #5. That's something I think about myself. I don't want to leave our kids with a huge burden when we're gone, so we're doing what we can to ensure that doesn't happen. Kudos!!
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thanks! and good luck to you! :)
I'm with you on number five - it's actually one of my life goals! I think seeing my parents [and now sister] always struggle to pay for just the basics due to their debts makes me extremely wary of taking out loans.

Good job on your goals! You're rocking it!
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definitely seeing those struggling around me has kept me motivated to stay on track and give back as i can. i'm luck in a lot of ways so i'm trying not to squander that advantage. good luck to you on keeping debt at bay :)

and thanks!
Love your answer to #5!!! I want that too!

Looks like you're doing good! Keep it up!
1 reply · active 727 weeks ago
i didn't realize how popular it was :) thanks!
I like your answer for #5. That's something we're really working hard towards too! It always helps to have a plan!
1 reply · active 727 weeks ago
having, remembering and sticking to the plan are the key ;) good luck with your monies!
Sounds like a good week! I love your list of ultimate goals too!! :)
1 reply · active less than 1 minute ago
Financial independence is an amazing goal. We are trying our best to be more organised with our money and not waste.
1 reply · active 727 weeks ago
my love of organizing definitely helped with my budgeting. too bad it doesn't help in the "staying on budget" part ;) good luck to you on getting everything in order!
Sounds like you're doing pretty well on your goals so far! And, yeah, financial independence for the win! I'm so tired of the majority of my monthly bills consisting of neverending credit cards and creditor companies. It is, quite simply, the suck. And I want to open my own counseling practice, too! =) Hopefully we can get to that awesome point.
1 reply · active 727 weeks ago
thanks and yes to fulfilling life dreams! we'll get there. one baby step at a time :)

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